How To Be More Playful To Build Resilience, Navigate Challenges And Find More Joy

 

“Research reveals that playful adults excel at problem-solving and stress management and consistently report higher life satisfaction,” explains Piera Gelardi, author of the new book, The Playful Way. 

The Playful Way is a mindset that transforms how you experience everything from airport security lines to career transitions to navigating grief. 

More specifically, Gelardi says playfulness is: 

• Finding humor and lightness even in tense moments.
• Staying open to possibilities rather than fixating on one “right” way.
• Experimenting rather than seeking perfection.
• Bringing an ethos of curious exploration to difficulties.
• Finding wisdom in the body when the mind’s tied up in knots.
• Tuning your attention to notice details and find wonder.
• Reimagining dull tasks through reframes and games.
• Improvising when things go sideways. 

Gelardi guides readers in uncovering the mental barriers and inner critics that restrict playfulness, offering practical techniques to reconnect with curiosity, wonder, and possibility. You'll also discover the Eight Powers of Play and learn to quiet the "Anti-Play Posse" voices in your head. 

Those Eight Powers of Play are: 

1. The Joyful Jester
2. The Visionary Dreamer
3. The Adventurous Improviser
4. The Mundane Alchemist
5. The Expressive Creator
6. The Mover and Shaker
7. The Wonder Wanderer
8. The Curious Quester 

Through personal stories, research, real-world examples, science-backed insights and practical exercises, Gelardi shows readers how to: 

• Reframe play not as an escape, reward, or productivity hack, but as a meaning way to reconnect with creativity, imagination, and sensory awareness. 
• Unlock innovative solutions when conventional thinking fails. 
• Build resilience during uncertainty and change. 
• Deepen connections with yourself and others. 
• Bring more flexibility, imagination, and joy into your work. 
• Create stronger teams and more resilient leaders. 
• Use the improv mantra “Yes, and” to transform challenges into opportunities, helping you navigate change with creativity and grace. 
• Reshape the way you tell stories to rewire our brains, turning life’s hardest moments into tales of resilience and growth. 
• Silence your inner critic, to find the courage to take risks, embrace imperfection, and grow through play. 

Piera Gelardi 

Gelardi shares these additional insights with us: 

Question: How best can a business leader instill The Playful Way within his/her company to the benefit of employees? 

Gelardi: The most powerful thing a leader can do is go first. Playfulness is permission-based — when a leader brings curiosity into a meeting, laughs at themselves, or proposes a wild idea without apology, it signals to everyone else that it's safe to do the same. 

Beyond modeling it, leaders can build it into the structure of work itself: start meetings with a two-minute creative warm-up, create space for experimentation without punishment for failure, and protect time for what I call Play Breaks — small, intentional moments of levity woven into the workday. The goal isn't to make work silly. It's to make work generative. Playful cultures aren't less serious — they're more resilient, more creative, and frankly more fun to show up for. 

Question: Of the eight Powers of Play, is there one that is most powerful and why? 

Gelardi: If I had to choose one it would be the Curious Quester — the power of asking genuinely open questions and following a thread just to see where it leads. Curiosity is the root system underneath all the other powers. It's what keeps you from getting stuck in one way of seeing a problem. It's what makes collaboration generative instead of performative. And in a business context, curiosity is the difference between leaders who adapt and leaders who don't. The Curious Quester doesn't need to have all the answers — they just need to keep asking better questions. In my experience, that's the most underrated leadership skill there is. 

“My hope is The Playful Way becomes your trusted companion: a permission slip and roadmap to creating a life that feels less like a series of problems to solve and more like an adventure,” shares Gelardi. 

She adds, “The Playful Way is also your guide to living with more whimsy, wonder, and possibility—through both the light moments and the tough ones. Because when you embrace playfulness, you don't have to go play. Play comes with you everywhere.”

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Gelardi is a creative entrepreneur, speaker, and artist passionate about bringing play into every room she enters. She has helped companies like Google, Meta, Paramount and more unlock creativity. She co-founded the influential media brand Refinery29 and its magical pop-up 29Rooms, earning recognition as one of Ad Age's "50 Most Creative People" and Entrepreneur's "50 Most Daring Entrepreneurs." Through her new company NoomaLooma and her energetic keynotes, Piera helps people unlock their creative superpowers. 

Thank you to the book’s publisher for sending me an advance copy of the book.