“As we age, the instinct to matter crystallizes into the fundamental need to be seen, heard, valued, and needed,” says Zach Mercurio Ph.D., author of the new book, The Power Of Mattering: How Leaders Can Create A Culture Of Significance . “The need to matter never goes away. And if our need to matter is satisfied, we flourish.” Mercurio explains that mattering is created through small, repeated interactions that ensure people feel noticed, affirmed, and needed. These three ingredients form these three leadership practices : Noticing: the practice of seeing and hearing others. Affirming: the practice of showing people how their unique gifts make a difference. Needing: the practice of showing people how they're relied on and indispensable. Part One of Mercurio’s book illuminates the what and why of mattering and offers you a self-assessment to measure your mattering skill level. Part Two explores ...
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