16 Ways To Build Trust

You can't lead if your employees, team or followers don't trust you.

Building trust takes energy, effort and constant attention to how you act.

To help build trust, follow these 16 tips, recommended by author Susan H. Shearouse:

Be honest
Keep commitments and keep your word
Avoid surprises
Be consistent with your mood
Be your best
Demonstrate respect
Listen
Communicate
Speak with a positive intent
Admit mistakes
Be willing to hear feedback
Maintain confidences
Get to know others
Practice empathy
Seek input from others
Say "thank you"

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