Outsmarting The 7 Hidden Obstacles To Success

Last month brought the new book, Trap Tales, by David M. R. Covey and Stephan M. Mardyks.

It's a guide to avoiding the seven obstacles that ensnare people every day.

Those common seven traps are:

The Relationship Trap
The Money Trap
The Focus Trap
The Change Trap
The Learning Trap
The Career Trap
The Purpose Trap

With sometimes counter-intuitive strategies and uncoventional wisdom, the authors teach you how to:

Identify the traps that are holding you back right now
Discover your escape routes
Avoid traps altogether

Thank you to the book's publisher for sending me an advance copy of the book.

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