How To Be A Good Listener
Here is a great passage from the book, Stronger: Develop the Resilience You Need to Succeed:
Listen to Others, Especially Before You Speak
According to author Denise Restauri, charismatic people are good listeners who make the conversation about the other person. they show genuine interest. They let the world revolve around the other person. They remember the other person's name-- and they use it.
So, when you listen to people, truly listen. Look at the other person with interest. Do not multitask.